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Crafting a workable parenting time schedule

On Behalf of | Jan 16, 2024 | Family Law

Crafting a workable parenting time schedule is necessary for a co-parenting relationship that isn’t constantly colored by tension. It requires careful consideration and collaboration to ensure that it meets the needs of both the parents and the children in a family.

Obviously, the children’s needs should be the primary focus when creating a parenting time schedule. Consider their ages, routines, school schedules, extracurricular activities and social life. Younger children might need more consistency with fewer transitions, while older children may handle more frequent switches between homes. With that said, if a parenting schedule doesn’t work practically for the adults in a family, it won’t be sustainable, so it’s important to consider your needs and your ex’s if you’re faced with this consequential task.

Key considerations to keep in mind

You’ll want to evaluate your work schedules, commitments and lifestyle realistically when planning. It’s important to create a schedule that aligns with your ability to provide care and attention to your children. Overcommitting or underestimating your availability can lead to stress and disappointment.

You’ll also want to keep in mind that children thrive on consistency and routine. Try to establish a regular pattern for transitions between homes. Consistent days of the week, times for pickups and drop-offs, and a predictable routine can help children to feel more secure and settled.

Finally, while consistency is key, some flexibility is also necessary. Life is unpredictable, and you may need to adjust the schedule for special occasions, emergencies or changes in circumstances. Agree on how you will manage these changes and communicate about them so that you can formalize some compromise-related protocols in your formal parenting time plan.

Crafting a workable parenting time schedule is rarely an easy undertaking. Therefore, it’s important to understand that you don’t have to tackle this task alone. Please call our firm for more information about how we can help.